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Are we evolving the ability to have bigger social networks?

Posted: March 19th, 2010 | Author: Erica | Filed under: Sociology of Social Networks | Tags: , , , , , , , , , | View Comments

Good old CBC. I was listening to a Rewind (where they play radio documentaries from God knows when to fill air time) on the subject of Hutterites. Hutterites, if you’re not Manitoban, are a communal, agrarian, pacifist religious group who live in colonies, raise pigs & sell eggs. What’s so social media about that, you wonder?

Well, I was struck by the doc’s revelation that when Hutterite colonies reach 150 members, they split off into a daughter colony. Upwards of 150 members, and the communities found that factioning and cliques played havoc with their carefully-maintained social system. Some people had to be removed from the equation to keep the peace.

The 150 limit happens to be the much-bandied-in-social media-circles Dunbar Number: the theoretical cognitive limit, determined by the size of our neocortex, to the amount of stable social relationships humans can maintain. Hutterite colonies seem to bear out Dunbar’s idea.

If we’re physically limited by the size of our brains to 150 real relationships, what does this mean for overfriending in social networks? I’m curious about a tipping point that may push people away from social networking. Are we mentally capable of the task of feeding hundreds of relationships?

Weak and strong ties are apples and oranges

We can “beat” the Dunbar limit and get preferential inclusion in people’s groups by being super useful, promoting ourselves as important parts of the network and rising in esteem, pushing less “useful” people into ambiance. Alternatively, we can seek to be so niche that we’re sought out transiently as part of a curated group when our particular expertise matters. That leads to opportunities without the attention demanded by full-time strong ties.

But through social media we can now form hundreds of weak ties that provide access to new thinking.

In a study by Leigh Thompson from Kellogg School of Management, it was determined that “open groups”, in which creative brainstorming was carried out with fresh members routinely added to the mix, produced more innovation than “closed groups” with the same members. A greater variety of unique ideas are generated by rotating your connections and expanding outside your 150.

Weak ties, in mathematical sociology, introduce more novel information. This is the value of Twitter.

The mere use of technology allows us to outsource our mental social landscape. A few clicks tells you what mutual friends you have in common with someone. Our brains now have external hard drives. Cognition limits may be circumventable at this juncture in human history.

Language is getting simplified

Dunbar proposed that language may have evolved as a “cheaper” form of social grooming, allowing humans to get on with their lives while still recognizing and reassuring each other of our social importance. Computerized text-based language is even cheaper; we strip out body language, tone of voice, and focused attention (eye contact), and bang off 140 characters to fulfill each other’s phatic needs. This low-cost social recognition may facilitate the growth our social sphere past neocortical limits.

Bruce Lahn, PhD, of the University of Chicago was the lead researcher on two papers in the mid-2000′s that indicated the human brain is still evolving in size and complexity. “Our environment and the skills we need to survive in it are changing faster then we ever imagined. I would expect the human brain, which has done well by us so far, will continue to adapt to those changes,” said the geneticist. The size limitations placed on our social spheres by brain size may dissolve as we adapt to greater connectivity.

If the network fits…

I asked an (actual) friend with almost 1000 Facebook connections if he felt harrassed by the amount of noise & people he’s paying attention to, or is the quality of the attention so dispersed that it’s easy to know stuff about so many people at once. I suspected it was 80/20, that a small percentage (around 200, approximately Dunbar) were doing most of the interaction.

“I was brought up to be social.” he said. “On a daily basis, I probably spend no more than 15 minutes on Facebook. I make it a point to message at least one person a day and reply to all my emails and wall posts. I would consider myself close friends with no more than 60 people on my friends list (and that includes family). I do not feel overwhelmed.”

“I actually purge people I have met if I hit 1000 friends.” His psychological and practical comfort level online hovers around a thousand people, about 6.5 times the Dunbar number.

A sense of overfriending is a function of expectation

Expectations in relationship strength are key to pleasurable social networking. If you regard Facebook as a place to keep in touch with your family and good friends, you’re going to be uncomfortable when your boss friends you.

Social media needs to be designed to explicitly foster strong or weak ties to manage etiquette breaches and social discomfort.

Notwithstanding fads and the network effect that keep people using the platform where their connections already are, niche networks that cater to weak and strong ties, or at least divide them adequately, will exist and be popular simultaneously.

Humans need a few kinds of places to interact. And yes, that includes social networks for Hutterites.


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  • http://www.emergentbydesign.com/ Venessa Miemis

    erica,

    this is excellent. i don’t know if you even realize the scope of what you’re hitting on here.

    here’s a thought experiment to test:

    take that PhD brain research you mention, combine it with

    http://www.evolutionarymanifesto.com, combine that with

    imagining what the activity of a brain looks like, and how information travels in it (non-linear, huge neural nets, crazy complex pathways that are constantly changing and growing and adapting and synapsing to new information)

    and compare that to

    imagining the activity of your tweets when it travels through your social network and then into other people’s networks in a non-linear, netted, complex fashion that defies explanation or prediction

    if you can internalize those components, you have literally honed in on the mystery of the universe and the meaning of life

    the purpose of building online social networks is not to socialize, per se.

    it’s to learn how to think.

    the way tweets move is exactly how ideas/thoughts move in your brain.

    the moment this idea hits you, you’re going to be on the verge of the shift.

    the reason it’s important, is because in order for us to move forward as a species, to continue to evolve, the next step of evolution is to develop the capacities of our brains.

    the only way to do this is to understand, even at an intuitive level, HOW THE BRAIN WORKS.

    twitter is the ultimate simulation of the brain, on a global level. it’s not just a metaphor.

    once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.

    except on the planet, the nodes that are the movers of information are not neurons, they’re people, and each of these people have resources. if you know how to move the idea to the places where the resources are and get them acted upon, you manifest them.

    the way to get them acted upon is to build trust with the people who have the resources you need.

    now get out there and change the world!!!

    - @venessamiemis

  • http://www.emergentbydesign.com/ Venessa Miemis

    erica,

    this is excellent. i don’t know if you even realize the scope of what you’re hitting on here.

    here’s a thought experiment to test:

    take that PhD brain research you mention, combine it with

    http://www.evolutionarymanifesto.com, combine that with

    imagining what the activity of a brain looks like, and how information travels in it (non-linear, huge neural nets, crazy complex pathways that are constantly changing and growing and adapting and synapsing to new information)

    and compare that to

    imagining the activity of your tweets when it travels through your social network and then into other people’s networks in a non-linear, netted, complex fashion that defies explanation or prediction

    if you can internalize those components, you have literally honed in on the mystery of the universe and the meaning of life

    the purpose of building online social networks is not to socialize, per se.

    it’s to learn how to think.

    the way tweets move is exactly how ideas/thoughts move in your brain.

    the moment this idea hits you, you’re going to be on the verge of the shift.

    the reason it’s important, is because in order for us to move forward as a species, to continue to evolve, the next step of evolution is to develop the capacities of our brains.

    the only way to do this is to understand, even at an intuitive level, HOW THE BRAIN WORKS.

    twitter is the ultimate simulation of the brain, on a global level. it’s not just a metaphor.

    once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.

    except on the planet, the nodes that are the movers of information are not neurons, they’re people, and each of these people have resources. if you know how to move the idea to the places where the resources are and get them acted upon, you manifest them.

    the way to get them acted upon is to build trust with the people who have the resources you need.

    now get out there and change the world!!!

    - @venessamiemis

  • http://www.emergentbydesign.com Venessa Miemis

    erica,

    this is excellent. i don’t know if you even realize the scope of what you’re hitting on here.

    here’s a thought experiment to test:

    take that PhD brain research you mention, combine it with

    http://www.evolutionarymanifesto.com, combine that with

    imagining what the activity of a brain looks like, and how information travels in it (non-linear, huge neural nets, crazy complex pathways that are constantly changing and growing and adapting and synapsing to new information)

    and compare that to

    imagining the activity of your tweets when it travels through your social network and then into other people’s networks in a non-linear, netted, complex fashion that defies explanation or prediction

    if you can internalize those components, you have literally honed in on the mystery of the universe and the meaning of life

    the purpose of building online social networks is not to socialize, per se.

    it’s to learn how to think.

    the way tweets move is exactly how ideas/thoughts move in your brain.

    the moment this idea hits you, you’re going to be on the verge of the shift.

    the reason it’s important, is because in order for us to move forward as a species, to continue to evolve, the next step of evolution is to develop the capacities of our brains.

    the only way to do this is to understand, even at an intuitive level, HOW THE BRAIN WORKS.

    twitter is the ultimate simulation of the brain, on a global level. it’s not just a metaphor.

    once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.

    except on the planet, the nodes that are the movers of information are not neurons, they’re people, and each of these people have resources. if you know how to move the idea to the places where the resources are and get them acted upon, you manifest them.

    the way to get them acted upon is to build trust with the people who have the resources you need.

    now get out there and change the world!!!

    - @venessamiemis

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  • http://ericaglasier.com/ Erica

    “once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.”

    This actually solves a problem I’ve been working on. It explains the real reason social media works. Thanks for the insight, Venessa!

  • http://ericaglasier.com/ Erica

    “once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.”

    This actually solves a problem I’ve been working on. It explains the real reason social media works. Thanks for the insight, Venessa!

  • http://ericaglasier.com Erica

    “once you “get” how information moves, you will literally “know” how to accomplish any of your goals as a human being.

    because it’s all about how to move information to the right place in order to get an action taken and solve problems.”

    This actually solves a problem I’ve been working on. It explains the real reason social media works. Thanks for the insight, Venessa!

  • http://timkastelle.org/blog/ Tim Kastelle

    Nice post Erica. I'm not sure that we're evolving the ability – I think that in the main we're just getting better at outsourcing some of the tracking of weak ties to external systems (software, online networks, etc.). In either case, I think that the phenomenon you've identified is definitely real, and a pretty interesting one too.

  • EricaGlasier

    Thanks Tim—thank god for external systems ;)

  • http://www.thebangpop.com/ @nataliekbeats

    Erica, I really enjoy your blog immensely. I do think we are evolving our ability to function in larger social networks, but I still think there is a limit. For example, I personally delete about 20 “friends” every three months or so from Facebook, because I like to keep that a place for real social interaction with people who I actually communicate with face to face or over the phone. Or at least have in the past. I love Twitter though because I can follow someone who I have never spoken to in person. There are ups and downs to this new social media influx, but I am a proponent of the new ways. Probably because I have grown up with social media as part of my everyday life. To say this is good or bad is still debatable.

  • EricaGlasier

    Thanks for reading (& commenting!) Natalie; nice to meet you!

    I'm torn about what to do with Facebook. I wrote about a solution to weak tie invasion/overfriending in Facebook, suggesting that they incorporate a dedicated stream for professional use only.

    http://ericaglasier.com/2010/03/08/how-facebook...

    If the platforms draw this kind of distinction – here's a place for “real” friends, here's a place for new contacts – then the right expectations will be set up for users, and there will be less awkwardness (and more interaction of the kind you're hoping for in both personal & professional scenarios).

    I love Twitter too, and the reason I think it works so well is that I know what to expect from it. Facebook is more murky at this point.

  • http://www.thebangpop.com/ @nataliekbeats

    Erica, I really enjoy your blog immensely. I do think we are evolving our ability to function in larger social networks, but I still think there is a limit. For example, I personally delete about 20 “friends” every three months or so from Facebook, because I like to keep that a place for real social interaction with people who I actually communicate with face to face or over the phone. Or at least have in the past. I love Twitter though because I can follow someone who I have never spoken to in person. There are ups and downs to this new social media influx, but I am a proponent of the new ways. Probably because I have grown up with social media as part of my everyday life. To say this is good or bad is still debatable.

  • EricaGlasier

    Thanks for reading (& commenting!) Natalie; nice to meet you!

    I'm torn about what to do with Facebook. I wrote about a solution to weak tie invasion/overfriending in Facebook, suggesting that they incorporate a dedicated stream for professional use only.

    http://ericaglasier.com/2010/03/08/how-facebook...

    If the platforms draw this kind of distinction – here's a place for “real” friends, here's a place for new contacts – then the right expectations will be set up for users, and there will be less awkwardness (and more interaction of the kind you're hoping for in both personal & professional scenarios).

    I love Twitter too, and the reason I think it works so well is that I know what to expect from it. Facebook is more murky at this point.

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